In our post on how to impress a girl using hobbies, we restricted ourselves to only hobbies. However, we want to provide you with more ways to impress and attract a girl, ensuring you gain a general picture of how to win a girl’s heart. We will be focusing on the psychological ways of making a girl subconsciously fall for you.
We know it’s hard getting and holding a lady’s attention let alone attracting her. By employment of the methods to be considered, you will take the guesswork out of the process.
The strategies to be discussed here are not unethical and will elevate your chances of titivating yourself in the eyes of your dream girl. They will serve as mental hooks, making you look appealing to any woman out there.
If your dream is to turn yourself into a magnet to attract that lady to your side, then you’re in the right place. All you need is to understand that women have some cues they look out for when scanning for their male counterparts. Besides, who wouldn’t? They need to know.
This has been evident in the lives of many of my friends and mine as well. The moment these strategies are adopted, the magic starts to emerge. You become a whole different person both in your mind and in the mind of your target.
So, let’s dive into how to impress a girl with these simple psychological tricks. And start applying them as soon as possible. You can apply one at a time or combine any of them for more effectiveness.
Have an interesting Hobby or skill
Although we have already touched a bit on this in another article linked above, it’s advisable we reiterate this point a bit more. Girls love hobbies and admire that feature the opposite sex. It speaks well of you to them. Hobbies like any other skill require persistence which shows who you are.
Examples of these include programming, coin collecting, playing a musical instrument, Graphic design, and many others. In our opinion, these are some of the hobbies women like men to be involved in.
Pick up and work at it. With practice, you will get better. If you want help to figure out how to do that, we have an article on how to find a hobby.
Have Your Own Life
Before ever considering making a girl like you, you need to first put your affairs in order. Girls love guys who know what they are about, and their aim in life, or at least they have a perspective on where they are heading. It makes the woman feel safer, rather than in a sojourn relationship hanging in the balance.
Maintain A Hygienic Lifestyle
Having your life in order also includes taking care of your personal hygiene as well. Women definitely notice and pay attention to mostly the essential elements of a man. They do care about how the man looks and smells. So, you need to have that at the back of your mind.
First, your scent is a very important part of what every woman looks out for in a man. So, take some time and get that cologne or some of the best body washes on the market and up your game. However, don’t do too much as it will start feeling like you’re focusing too much on yourself.
Also, another important aspect is your face. Keeps those eyebrows neat, trim your nose hair, and keep your hair properly cut and neat. Usually, most women are turned on by a nicely trimmed face. So, continually visit your favorite barber any time you need those necklines looked after. Like your face, ensure your skin is also properly moisturized and clean because it indicates how much healthy you are.
Another important aspect is your dental hygiene. No woman wants a man with bad breath. it will drive her away. If you think we are joking, think for a minute about why most celebrities like Ryan Reynolds, Tom Holland, and Timothee Chalamet spend thousands of dollars on expensive dental treatments for great breath. However, you can focus on continually flossing and using Listerine slips to keep your dental hygiene top-notch. You don’t need to make those expenses if you can’t afford them.
Ask her to do something for you
Having to do things for you even if just taking a book for you makes her feel trusted. S you keep on this, you start gaining her trust and in no time, she will want to have you for herself. This is evident in a concept called the “Benjamin Franklin effect”. Benjamin Franklin used this idea with pollical friends and enemies. So, try it out and see how effective it is. Remember practicing this will make it worthwhile.
Make her laugh
Cracking jokes and making a woman laugh is a well-known element every lady looks for in a woman. Your capacity for using funny words to elevate the atmosphere during any discussion will improve your chances of having a girl fall for you.
In considering this trait, we are reminded of the numerous studies that indicate that women value a man’s ability to make them laugh. In other words, the better your jokes, the more attractive you are in the eyes of a woman. It signals to them you’re a mentally strong and humorous person. Why women prefer to laugh maybe because it’s healthy and improves their mood.
So, make yourself more appealing to ladies, put yourself through some serious training in humor and you will land yourself in the warmth, friendship, and love of your dream, girl.
Find inspiration on how to be remarkably weird using these funny quotes.
Be her friend
There is an important element essential to every long-lasting relationship. That is Friendship first, then lovers. Having a feel of who a person is before jumping into the water with that person makes a woman feel safe in a relationship. It’s not just a trick women use to flaw your advances, but a way to build a bridge to a relationship.
Building a strong friendship usually precedes having a strong relationship. Most women according to studies and in the lives of some friends use friendship as an opening to their would-be partner’s way of thinking before jumping into any issues later. Although it’s not guaranteed, having her as your friend gives you a good chance of winning her heart. That is, they feel more attached, familiar, and probably safe with you.
So, don’t rush things if she seeks friendship first. It’s a sign she wants to have you one day.
Tell her secrets
As friends, you can start letting her into your life bit by bit. That is, telling her hidden stuff about you; your childhood likes and dislikes, and even letting her in on things you have kept hidden from others.
Doing this creates a sense of trust between you and her. She feels you can confide in her. Tons of studies have proved this over and over again. It is purely psychological and makes people feel a sense of family around you and in this case your dream woman.
Play good music
Studies have shown that women love guys who not only love music but play music as well. Specifically, research conducted on 1,500 women who made them listen to simple and complex songs showed that women prefer complex songs to simple ones.
The inference from that research is that women prefer composers who play complex songs to be their life partners.
So, start playing these amorous songs to keep her hooked to you,
Be attentive to her
Women love to enjoy the feeling of being the center of focus, especially, during conversations. Never let a woman feel ignored when talking to you especially if it’s something important to her. Try your utmost best to ignore distractions. Whether it’s your phone or her appearance, you must try to look her straight in the eye during a conversation. Listen to her every word and also ask her questions to keep yourself engaged. The more questions you ask signals to her you’re actually listening.
Before having a conversation with a girl, you seek to woo, have your phone on silent or off so that you can give her all your attention, make her feel special, and have her be the only one important at that specific moment. In fact, it’s romantic and will have her thinking of your all day.
Conclusion
The easiest way to make life easier for yourself with attracting is to start applying these simple methods.
With these tips, you can woo any girl, but also consider this article on getting awesome gift ideas to make that special someone feel loved.
References
The Benjamin Franklin Effect: How to Build Rapport by Asking for Favors
Reasons to build a friendship before a relationship
